Focus 2008

I hope this picture will always serve as a reminder to us that how fortunate we are and that we must never ever take things for granted.

Can anyone stop loving someone ?

I actually doubt that there is nothing like someone wants to stop loving anybody. It sounds like they probably want to stop needing or craving somebody.

Love is joyful -- need and craving tend to be painful. In many relationships love and need are mixed up into a complicated soup that makes it hard to tell which way is up.

Love has this timeless, transcendent quality to it, there's no need to get rid of that -- as people say, it can change forms and still be love. If your being-together is over, there's nothing to stop the love from changing into a form appropriate for the current state of your relationship.

But the need or craving is something that you have to deal with in yourself. It can be very painful to be in a situation where you've decided that you need to have someone who is no longer in your life.

Ultimately, these kinds of longings have their root in your own identity. Sometimes we have an unconscious belief about ourselves that we're incomplete somehow -- missing something. It's common to believe that some other person fills in the missing piece and makes us whole. This is a terrible situation to be in if that person is not available -- and even if they are available it makes for an unstable sense of personal identity.

Mostly people resolve these "holes inside" by trying to fill them up with some new distraction: another lover, work, excesses of some kind, etc. Needless to say, a hole in your soul isn't going to be filled like that, although such things can reduce the pain.

The real solution is to recognize that there's a false identity at work: there is no such thing as a human being who isn't already whole and complete. Yet many of us have beliefs about ourselves which are very strong, and those beliefs take some form of "I'm not OK just the way I am". Those beliefs are the source of the hole. They're like weeds that take over and choke off the healthy growth and development of a person.

If you learn how to find those weeds and pull them out by the roots, the hole goes away.

The Choice....

World under our foot with FRIENDS by our side

Wish I had a similar girl friend

Is this a Controversy or THE TRUTH ?

She was all but a Dream

I was dreaming about her last night
Smiling all through the dream
My face experiencing wonderful expressions
Many ups and downs in the feelings
Felt as If I was missing her a lot
All of a sudden tiny little ear drops
Rolling over my wrinkled cheeks
Who knows Whats happening now
What else could it be other than
She leaving me alone sealing with a kiss
Saying a Good bye for all I had wished
Life is not as same as before since she has left
Moving on there after might look simple
But what I leave behind makes it difficult

I don't miss her anymore like before
But I miss her for what I thought she was
Wish I could build a bridge over the river
Which is still streaming because of my tears
Nothing else is the reason other than my love
But why should I be sad for what is over
And not be glad that it was all mine once
Should I hate her because she has hurted me
Or Should I love her because she made me feel
Like no one else had done it before
Why am I afraid to lose her all of a sudden
When she is not even near to being mine
I have realised that I love her so much
When I want her to be happy always
Even though I'm not a bit of her happiness
Also realised that holding on to something
Is what people liked to do, to show they are strong
But letting your best wish to go Would show
That theres nothing in this world to hurt us anymore

Happy Days .....

Happy days are those when you feel happy
But are you really happy always...
One would be happy until things are going on well
But things arent always that way
Days pass by for sure
Not all the incidents are the same
Its the human's thinking which makes him happy
Who is bothered of the soul now a days
People generally are born, grow, reproduce, die
What else is meaningful in one's life
How many have started to walk in the path of the glory
Probably this is the time for the individual to wake up
There are instances and examples available all over the world
Good happenings are always present
Hardly visible to Human's naked eye
Even in the case of God who created the world
He had many wishes of his creation, which didn't happen
While the God failed to get what he really loved
What are we gonna face in our lives then ?
Its one's mind which let him take his life as
One can be happy no matter even he is hell
At the same time, he could feel lonely even in heaven
Its upto the thoughts which initiate this feeling
Every soul by origin wants to be happy
But the social animals have done too much in this world
Adding on many bugs to it, causing it to suffer
Its time to realise whats beyond our capabilities
Its time to start focussing on our spiritual wonders
Human being is a holy place where the God lives
No matter what and who the God is ...
Its the responsibility of the human being to keep it graceful
How many are doing it now in this fast moving world
Which is framed for the survival of the fittest
What brings happiness to people from this outside world
Nothing other than problems which help us to move towards Godliness
But still, its the choice of us to decide what we wanna do
Changes do occur in life but how drastic are they ?
Are they enough for to realise the need for the everlasting Bliss
Its not too late even now...
Better late than never...
Happy days are always happy until our Souls are happy
Lets have a wonderful peaceful earth in the future...